The other day, someone gave me this leaflet about positive discipline. I would like to share these tips with you since I think that they are very helpful. I do not claim credit for this information and tips.
- Show respect, and focus i the behavior, not the child.
- Be firm, fair, and consistent. Discipline with love.
- Never use physical punishment. It teaches children that violence is OK.
- Fit the consequences to the behavior. For example, if your child paints on the wall, the punishment should be to clean it off.
- Act as soon as possible so your child associates misbehavior with their consequences.
- If you are very upset, cool down before you use discipline.
- Try “time-outs.” This allows younger children to think about their actions. The best place for a time-out is an area that isn’t pleasurable for the child.
- Keep in mind that no one is perfect. We all make mistakes.
- Decide what behaviors you must take a stand on and which you can be more flexible about.
- Give praise often for your child’s positive actions and qualities. This will encourage your child to continue the behavior you want.
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