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May 19, 2019

3 Reasons You May Grieve After Divorce

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Although divorce is a common phenomenon in modern life, the reaction individuals have to the loss of a life-long partnership can be very different. Well-meaning questions from loved ones and friends can cause the deep feelings to resurface as you remember the expectations you had as you entered your marriage, and memories can tear at your soul as you try to move on with your life. Just like any other deep loss, divorce can cause grief. Here are three reasons you may find yourself grieving long after the divorce is final.

1. Your Love Hasn’t Died

When you are blindsided by the divorce, you can find yourself still feeling love for the one that left you behind. Even as you meet to sign the official papers in the office of the divorce lawyer Orlando FL, you may still feel yourself longing for what once was and wondering if this is all a horrible dream. Losing someone you care about can hurt and grieving through the pain is expected.

2. You Lost Your Best Friend

Finding someone you can trust completely enough to call him or her a friend can be difficult. When your best friend is also the one you are divorcing, the pain can be very deep. Even if the divorce is amicable, you may have lost someone you shared the small moments of each day with, laughed over silly television shows with, and revealed intimate moments of thought to. Grieving over the loss of your best friend is only natural.

3. Your Lifestyle Shattered

You probably have mutual friends, children, a home, and holidays with both families. When a divorce occurs, all of those things change, as friends must choose sides, children stay with one parent, the home is sold, and holidays become painful events. Grieving over lost dreams of the future is the only way to get through the pain.

Divorce can hurt as you find yourself working through the grief of being alone. Knowing your feelings are normal can help you move through even the worst of the emotionally low days.

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