10+ Ways to Be a Great Parent

Parenting doesn’t come with a manual (although, as some say, the Bible offers plenty of timeless wisdom on raising children—but I digress). None of us are born knowing exactly how to be great parents. The good news is that we can learn from others’ experiences and give ourselves a head start as we build our own families.

The following tips were originally shared in a pamphlet distributed by Positive Promotions, and I found them so valuable that I wanted to pass them along to you.

10 Tried-and-True Ways to Be a Great Parent

1. Be a good role model. Children learn more from what we do than what we say.
2. Show respect for your child’s feelings, thoughts, and suggestions. Listening validates them.
3. Make your child feel loved—through your words, praise, hugs, and kisses.
4. Keep your word. If you have to break a promise, apologize and make it right.
5. Encourage creativity. Ask questions that spark imagination and curiosity.
6. Build self-esteem. Recognize genuine effort, not just achievement.
7. Stay involved. Know what’s happening in your child’s world—at school, with friends, and online.
8. Discipline with love. Be fair and firm, focusing on behavior rather than labeling the child.
9. Create family traditions. Shared rituals and fun moments build strong bonds.
10. Think positively. Expect the best from yourself and your child; optimism fuels resilience and growth.

A Few More Ideas to Consider

11. Practice patience. Every child grows and learns at their own pace—progress takes time.
12. Model healthy communication. Show how to express emotions calmly and respectfully.
13. Encourage independence. Let your child make age-appropriate choices to build confidence.
14. Take care of yourself. A rested, supported parent is a better parent.
15. Laugh often. Humor relieves stress and reminds everyone that family life can be fun.

Parenting is a lifelong journey—sometimes challenging, often messy, but always meaningful.

What other tips would you add to this list? Share your thoughts in the comments below—I’d love to hear them.

Have a wonderful day!